How to ask out a cute person in middle school

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You like a girl and you want to ask her out. If you ask people how to do it, some will say “just do it”. Actually, it is not that simple, particularly when you are in middle school. One reason is that most girls in middle school do not have much “going out” experience and they are easily freaked out. If you want to ask a girl out, you need a plan. Here I am going to show you how to ask a girl out in middle school successfully.

Get to know the girl you are interested in first. Do your best to become her friend or to have mutual friends with her. Give her a good first impression. Remember no girl wants to go out with some guy she doesn’t like. Chat with her or her friends to find out whether she likes you and whether she already has a boyfriend. If she doesn’t like you or is not available, don’t bother asking her out because you will probably get rejected.

Ask her out yourself. If you have decided to ask her out, you should do it personally. Don’t ask or pay someone else do it for you because they may not keep secrets or they may make jokes about it later. Also you will show her that you are sincere when you ask her out by yourself. Doing it this way will get you a better chance of success.

You can ask her out in person, via instant messaging or on the phone. Many girls like face-to-face talks because they feel respected that way. Get some privacy when you do it. You don’t want to embarrass her or yourself. You don’t want other people’s opinions, particularly her friends’ opinions, influencing her decision. Never ask her out in front of other people.

If you ask her out in person, be serious. Don’t give her the wrong impression that you are joking. If she says “yes”, don’t be too excited. Be cool. Give her a sweet smile. If she said “no”, don’t feel humiliated or too gloomy. It is normal. There are many reasons why she would say no, or perhaps there is no reason at all. She may change her mind later. So if she turns you down, be polite because you may win her back later. The most important thing is that after learning how to ask a girl out in the middle school, you need to get a plan and do it. Be brave and be cool.

Long gone are the days of us women waiting around for guys to ask us out. It’s the 21 st century which means, girls, that we’re allowed to take control. Asking your crush out isn’t as scary as you may think either. No doubt you’re panicking and making a massive deal of it in your head but you shouldn’t be. Just relax. It’s easy – he won’t bite.

On that note, I think it’s time we get creative too. It’s time we think outside the box and ask him out in a cute, memorable and sometimes even cheesy way. You want your proposal to stand out to him, it needs to be unforgettable so that you will be too.

Here’s 10 cute ways to ask a guy out…

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Send Him A Note

Simple but effective. When he leaves his desk/work area simply walk on by and leave a note asking him out. Be sure to give him a flirty smile as he passes you to go back to his desk too. Just make sure your note can’t be mistaken as trash!

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Send Him An Email

We really are in the new age now. How about asking him out by email? There’s no risk of it getting lost and it saves you having to see him and get embarrassed. Perhaps suggest a date on it and send him your number.

Ask Him If He Has A Girlfriend

Once you’re in conversation with him, simply ask him if he has a girlfriend. Once he says no (hopefully!) you can steer the conversation your way and it should end with the pair of you arranging a date.

Give Him Your Number In Style

Giving him your number can be simple or it can be memorable. If he’s a sports fan, write your name and number on a baseball or basketball and give it to him. If he reads, slip it into whatever he’s reading currently. You get the idea!

Plan A Treasure Hunt

Why not draw him a map to follow and tell him he has to find the hidden treasure by a certain time. Ideally the hidden treasure will be you sitting in a restaurant or somewhere similar.

Send Him Love Hearts

Ah Love Hearts, those classic little sweets! Begin eating a pack in front of him and then purposely offer him one that says ‘Be Mine’. Perhaps follow it up with a complimenting one. He’ll soon get the idea.

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Give Him A Present

Again, if he’s away from his desk or workspace sneak up and leave something on his desk. This time you could leave a small box and inside it could be your note and perhaps information on a restaurant reservation or tickets to the big game.

Shock Him With A Parking Ticket

If he’s got a sense of humor (and a car!) this one will be great. Write out your note in the style and shape of a parking ticket and leave it on his windshield. If things work out, both of you will be telling people about it for years to come.

Put A Message In A Bottle

How cute is this idea? You do require some props but not many and they’ll be easy to find. Get an empty bottle (preferably glass) and fill it with a bit of sand an slip your note inside before sticking a cork in the top to seal it. You can then leave your bottle anywhere for your crush to find. It doesn’t matter if it’s his desk, his car, his doorstep or anywhere else, just so long as he finds it.

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Just Ask Him!

If all else fails, just ask him! This may not be the cutest idea or the most creative but it’s certainly been proven effective time and time again. Gather your courage, compose yourself and simply walk up to him. You can either start a regular conversation first or you can jump in at the deep end and ask him. It doesn’t matter, just so long as you ask. It’s best if you have a clear idea of where you’d like to go on a date first, this way you’re less likely to get flustered and mess up your words. He’ll love that you had the courage to ask him outright and he’ll probably find your blush when you do cute too.

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

So there you have it, ladies, 10 fun and cute ways to ask a guy out. They’re all memorable, creative and if all goes well they’ll get the job done. Just remember, the worst that can happen is he can say no so there’s nothing to worry about. You can do this, just be brave and be creative.

Let me know if you’ve tried any of these before or if you do, I’d love to hear from you!

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How to ask out a cute person in middle schoolThere I was, 7th grade, sitting oh-so-close to one of the prettiest girls in school. She had long, wavy blonde hair, and for the life of me I couldn’t stop staring at her legs. I wanted nothing other than her.

That was my math class, every single day, 5 days a week. And I knew that it was on me to figure out how to get her every bit as excited about me as I was about her. I had to figure out how to get a girl’s attention.

And so I did. In “How to Attract Women,” I spoke some about how I learned to attract women later in life. What I want to talk about in this post, though, was how I learned to get women’s attention; how I learned to make women take note of me, start keeping track of me, and begin to become intrigued. Because it was those early lessons in middle school, as well as the ones that were to come years later, that allowed me to today find it quite easy to get girls noticing me seemingly (from their points of view) before I’ve noticed them, and it’s an important element of getting them to chase.

If you can learn how to get a girl’s attention, you can learn how to captivate her. And once you’ve mastered those two things. let’s just say everything else is a snap.

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Chase Amante

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.

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Long gone are the days of us women waiting around for guys to ask us out. It’s the 21 st century which means, girls, that we’re allowed to take control. Asking your crush out isn’t as scary as you may think either. No doubt you’re panicking and making a massive deal of it in your head but you shouldn’t be. Just relax. It’s easy – he won’t bite.

On that note, I think it’s time we get creative too. It’s time we think outside the box and ask him out in a cute, memorable and sometimes even cheesy way. You want your proposal to stand out to him, it needs to be unforgettable so that you will be too.

Here’s 10 cute ways to ask a guy out…

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Send Him A Note

Simple but effective. When he leaves his desk/work area simply walk on by and leave a note asking him out. Be sure to give him a flirty smile as he passes you to go back to his desk too. Just make sure your note can’t be mistaken as trash!

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Send Him An Email

We really are in the new age now. How about asking him out by email? There’s no risk of it getting lost and it saves you having to see him and get embarrassed. Perhaps suggest a date on it and send him your number.

Ask Him If He Has A Girlfriend

Once you’re in conversation with him, simply ask him if he has a girlfriend. Once he says no (hopefully!) you can steer the conversation your way and it should end with the pair of you arranging a date.

Give Him Your Number In Style

Giving him your number can be simple or it can be memorable. If he’s a sports fan, write your name and number on a baseball or basketball and give it to him. If he reads, slip it into whatever he’s reading currently. You get the idea!

Plan A Treasure Hunt

Why not draw him a map to follow and tell him he has to find the hidden treasure by a certain time. Ideally the hidden treasure will be you sitting in a restaurant or somewhere similar.

Send Him Love Hearts

Ah Love Hearts, those classic little sweets! Begin eating a pack in front of him and then purposely offer him one that says ‘Be Mine’. Perhaps follow it up with a complimenting one. He’ll soon get the idea.

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Give Him A Present

Again, if he’s away from his desk or workspace sneak up and leave something on his desk. This time you could leave a small box and inside it could be your note and perhaps information on a restaurant reservation or tickets to the big game.

Shock Him With A Parking Ticket

If he’s got a sense of humor (and a car!) this one will be great. Write out your note in the style and shape of a parking ticket and leave it on his windshield. If things work out, both of you will be telling people about it for years to come.

Put A Message In A Bottle

How cute is this idea? You do require some props but not many and they’ll be easy to find. Get an empty bottle (preferably glass) and fill it with a bit of sand an slip your note inside before sticking a cork in the top to seal it. You can then leave your bottle anywhere for your crush to find. It doesn’t matter if it’s his desk, his car, his doorstep or anywhere else, just so long as he finds it.

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Just Ask Him!

If all else fails, just ask him! This may not be the cutest idea or the most creative but it’s certainly been proven effective time and time again. Gather your courage, compose yourself and simply walk up to him. You can either start a regular conversation first or you can jump in at the deep end and ask him. It doesn’t matter, just so long as you ask. It’s best if you have a clear idea of where you’d like to go on a date first, this way you’re less likely to get flustered and mess up your words. He’ll love that you had the courage to ask him outright and he’ll probably find your blush when you do cute too.

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

So there you have it, ladies, 10 fun and cute ways to ask a guy out. They’re all memorable, creative and if all goes well they’ll get the job done. Just remember, the worst that can happen is he can say no so there’s nothing to worry about. You can do this, just be brave and be creative.

Let me know if you’ve tried any of these before or if you do, I’d love to hear from you!

How to Ask a Girl or Guy to Prom in a Cool, Romantic Way

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We’ve all heard about those totally over-the-top ways to ask someone to prom – hiring a skywriter, having your principal announce it over the loudspeaker and that sort of thing. Those make for cute stories, but they’re not very realistic. And besides, they might cause your crush more embarrassment than anything else. Here are 10 creative ways to ask someone to prom that might actually work.
Note: these all can work great for both girls and guys. But don’t use any of them if you aren’t pretty confident that they’ll say “yes”.

Invite Her in a YouTube Video

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Upload a short video to YouTube asking her, “will you go to prom with me?” (To protect her privacy, either use her initials or set the video to “private.”) Send her a link to the video in an IM or text message. Or to send her on a real scavenger hunt, combine it with something else on this list and hide instructions for finding the video in something else.

Give Her a Stuffed Animal

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Tie a ribbon around the neck of a stuffed animal (I love unconventional picks, like this dinosaur), and attach a tag to the ribbon that says, “Will you go to prom with me?” For an extra dose of cheese, coordinate the animal with the message. For instance, how about a horse that says, “Prom with me: yea or neigh?”, or a penguin that says, “going to prom with you would be the coolest.”

Issue a Parking Ticket

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Write a note to him and slip it into an old parking ticket envelope (or, if you don’t have one, buy a fake one). Then stick it behind his windshield wiper. You can even write something in the note like: “You’re in violation of being too awesome.” or: “Your fine for being so fine: take me to prom!”

Slip It Into a Fortune Cookie

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Buy some custom fortune cookies at Greenfire – they’ll fill them with a personalized “Will you go to prom with me?” message. Pass her a cookie in the school cafeteria, or even better, take her out for Chinese food and hand her one at the end of the meal.

Ask Him in a Foreign Language

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Do you share a Spanish class with him? Slip him a note that says: “¿Usted ira a baile de fin de curso conmigo?” If you share a French class together, give him a note that says: “Est-ce que tu viendras au bal de fin d’année avec moi?” And if you’re worried that he might be clueless in every language, pick up a translating dictionary and slip your note into that.

Sneak It Into a Batch of Cookies

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Bake some cookies and arrange them onto a plate with a note hiding underneath. (Put a little tissue paper between the cookies and the note so it doesn’t get all greasy.) You can write a cute pun (like, “going to prom with you would be so sweet!”) or just play it straight. Either way, you’ve made his belly so happy that he’ll probably say yes.

Send Her a Bouquet of Flowers

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

There’s no more romantic way to ask a girl to prom than with flowers. Order a bouquet from FTD or TeleFlora and sign the card, “Will you go to prom with me?” If you want to accomplish the same thing for cheaper, buy a bouquet from the supermarket or make one out of flowers from your garden (with your parents’ permission, of course).

Make Her a Playlist

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Create a playlist with some of your favorite romantic songs. Then, send her the list on iTunes or Spotify. Send her an email with the list of all of the songs, and make sure that the subject of the email says “Will you go to Prom with Me?” For song inspirations, check out this list of popular prom songs and this list of ultra-cheesy prom songs.

Go Old-School with a Formal Invitation

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Write an invitation in your best calligraphy on a piece of parchment paper, then roll it up and tie it with a velvet ribbon. Slip it into his backpack or locker, or to get even more authentic, enlist one of your friends to act as a messenger. (For tips on calligraphy, take a lesson from Martha Stewart).

Just Come Right Out and Ask Him

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Okay, it might not be that creative. But if the guy or girl you’re asking to prom isn’t guaranteed to say “yes,” then it’s perfectly acceptable to ask the old-fashioned way. After all, if they want to go with you, they’ll agree to it no matter how you ask them.

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Are you having one of those dances where the girls ask the guy out? Or do you just know a really great guy that you would like to go out with and are tired of waiting around for him to ask you out? Well, I have came up with 10 ways to ask a guy out. I am going to list some of the not so unique ideas, but I also want to get into unique ways to ask a guy out…

10. Scavenger Hunt

I have always liked the idea of a scavenger hunt. With this technique, you would leave the last clue in a note saying “I want you to go out with me” then tell him in the note where to find you. When he comes, hide behind something, then jump out behind him, cover his eyes and say “do you?”

9. Kidnap His Jacket

This one is very cute. Kidnap his jacket and leave a note in it’s place. Make the note something like this “If you ever want to see your jacket again and me, then meet me at this restaurant if you want to go on “a date with me.”

8. Business Card

On the business card, put “Will you go out with me? If interested, please contact me.” Include your e-mail address and phone number on it.

7. Which Color?

Send a big envelope filled with balloons. One red, one yellow, one green, one orange, one purple, one white and one black. Add a note saying “Will you go out with me? Send the blue balloon if the answer is no and send the red balloon if the answer is yes.” Yes, I know, there is no blue balloon.

6. Magazine Style

Find the guys favorite magazine or book that he is reading and put a piece of paper the size of the magazine or book. The paper in there should be slightly sprayed with perfume, then write a biography about you. On the bottom, in darker letters put: “I wonder if (insert his name) wants to go out with me.

5. Date by an Appointment

This one is great if the guy you like works and schedules people for appointments. Call and make an appointment under another name. Then, show up at his office with some take out. This would be great if you knew what his favorite restaurant was. Ask a guy out this way and you definitely have a date!

4. And the Winner is

Write a letter to the guy that goes something like this “You won! You are the most eligible bachelor in town, would you be interested in going out with me?” Make sure to enclose your phone number. This is a great and unique way to ask a guy out!

3. Do You Floss?

Find a dental floss cartridge that is empty. Type or write a letter in thin lines, roll the letter on the spool so that only the beginning will be hanging out.

2. Send an E-mail

You could always do it the old fashioned (or is that new fashioned?) way and send an e-mail confessing your crush to him and asking him out.

1. Ask Him if He Has a Girlfriend

When/if he says “no,” then ask him if he wants a girlfriend. If he says sure, ask him if he has anyone in mind. It should end with you asking him out.

You see girls, you should ask a guy out in a way that will stick out in his mind. Gone are the days when we sat around waiting for them to ask us out. In this day and age, we are allowed to ask guys out without getting stared at. Do you like the unique ways to ask a guy out or do you want to stick with the traditional way?

Asking someone out on a date can be intimidating. When it comes to shooting your shot, you might as well give it a try. In the words of Wayne Gretzky, “You miss every shot you don’t take.” If you want to ask out someone in class, there are some surprisingly great reasons to do so. For instance, Facebook Data Sciences reports that 28 percent of married college graduates went to the same school as their spouse and 15 percent went to the same high school. This is great news for you if you’ve been crushing hard on the cutie that sits next to you in history class.

Asking someone out at a party may seem easier than doing so before class, but you could get distracted and forget to make concrete plans with them. Asking after class is a great time to schedule something concrete because you’re both more alert. In class, you can also drop the suggestion in a conversation about homework or go the old-school route and pass them a note. If you want to ask your class crush out, but you’re nervous, check out the following reasons why it might just work!

1. You have a solid reason.

Being in class together might mean a few things. It could mean that you’ve had a chance to get to know each other at least a little bit. This can make the transition to suggesting a date outside of class a little bit easier compared to if you didn’t know each other at all. If you talk frequently, you probably know enough about them to have a really fun date. If you haven’t spoken with each other at all, there could still be recognition from seeing each other in class — and maybe even a mutual crush happening.

2. You already have built-in content to discuss on the date.

Once you make the date, being classmates helps you out a lot. You already have a lot of material to discuss simply by being in the same class. If it’s a major-specific course, you can also talk about your shared field and why both of you chose it. You can also dish about your funny or strict professor or your fellow classmates.

3. The date is more likely to happen.

It may be easier to ask someone out at a party because the environment is definitely more laidback and fun compared to class. Keep in mind that because parties are so casual, even if you ask someone out, you could forget to ask for their number or end up leaving without making concrete plans. Since you and your crush are probably more alert for class than you would be at a party, you can make the plans and exchange numbers right there. Or, if you are both leaving class and have a free afternoon, you could wander into a coffee shop as soon as class gets out.

No matter the scenario, it can be intimidating to ask someone on a date. Choosing the best time and environment to talk to your crush about hanging out can definitely help ease your nerves. These are only a few reasons that asking a class mate out could really work. Overall, the odds are in your favor for when you feel ready to talk to that Chem 101 crush you feel a certain. chemistry with.

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How to Ask a Girl or Guy to Prom in a Cool, Romantic Way

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We’ve all heard about those totally over-the-top ways to ask someone to prom – hiring a skywriter, having your principal announce it over the loudspeaker and that sort of thing. Those make for cute stories, but they’re not very realistic. And besides, they might cause your crush more embarrassment than anything else. Here are 10 creative ways to ask someone to prom that might actually work.
Note: these all can work great for both girls and guys. But don’t use any of them if you aren’t pretty confident that they’ll say “yes”.

Invite Her in a YouTube Video

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Upload a short video to YouTube asking her, “will you go to prom with me?” (To protect her privacy, either use her initials or set the video to “private.”) Send her a link to the video in an IM or text message. Or to send her on a real scavenger hunt, combine it with something else on this list and hide instructions for finding the video in something else.

Give Her a Stuffed Animal

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Tie a ribbon around the neck of a stuffed animal (I love unconventional picks, like this dinosaur), and attach a tag to the ribbon that says, “Will you go to prom with me?” For an extra dose of cheese, coordinate the animal with the message. For instance, how about a horse that says, “Prom with me: yea or neigh?”, or a penguin that says, “going to prom with you would be the coolest.”

Issue a Parking Ticket

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Write a note to him and slip it into an old parking ticket envelope (or, if you don’t have one, buy a fake one). Then stick it behind his windshield wiper. You can even write something in the note like: “You’re in violation of being too awesome.” or: “Your fine for being so fine: take me to prom!”

Slip It Into a Fortune Cookie

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Buy some custom fortune cookies at Greenfire – they’ll fill them with a personalized “Will you go to prom with me?” message. Pass her a cookie in the school cafeteria, or even better, take her out for Chinese food and hand her one at the end of the meal.

Ask Him in a Foreign Language

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Do you share a Spanish class with him? Slip him a note that says: “¿Usted ira a baile de fin de curso conmigo?” If you share a French class together, give him a note that says: “Est-ce que tu viendras au bal de fin d’année avec moi?” And if you’re worried that he might be clueless in every language, pick up a translating dictionary and slip your note into that.

Sneak It Into a Batch of Cookies

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Bake some cookies and arrange them onto a plate with a note hiding underneath. (Put a little tissue paper between the cookies and the note so it doesn’t get all greasy.) You can write a cute pun (like, “going to prom with you would be so sweet!”) or just play it straight. Either way, you’ve made his belly so happy that he’ll probably say yes.

Send Her a Bouquet of Flowers

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

There’s no more romantic way to ask a girl to prom than with flowers. Order a bouquet from FTD or TeleFlora and sign the card, “Will you go to prom with me?” If you want to accomplish the same thing for cheaper, buy a bouquet from the supermarket or make one out of flowers from your garden (with your parents’ permission, of course).

Make Her a Playlist

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Create a playlist with some of your favorite romantic songs. Then, send her the list on iTunes or Spotify. Send her an email with the list of all of the songs, and make sure that the subject of the email says “Will you go to Prom with Me?” For song inspirations, check out this list of popular prom songs and this list of ultra-cheesy prom songs.

Go Old-School with a Formal Invitation

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Write an invitation in your best calligraphy on a piece of parchment paper, then roll it up and tie it with a velvet ribbon. Slip it into his backpack or locker, or to get even more authentic, enlist one of your friends to act as a messenger. (For tips on calligraphy, take a lesson from Martha Stewart).

Just Come Right Out and Ask Him

How to ask out a cute person in middle school

Okay, it might not be that creative. But if the guy or girl you’re asking to prom isn’t guaranteed to say “yes,” then it’s perfectly acceptable to ask the old-fashioned way. After all, if they want to go with you, they’ll agree to it no matter how you ask them.