How to be a sweet fun girl

Men are picky when it comes to dating. If you are single and out there dating, I am sure you are very aware of just how choosy men are. Women are particular too, but somehow the men seem to be worse. Usually, men have an idea in their head of a type of gal to whom they are attracted, and either you fit the mold or you don’t. However, occasionally a man will fall for a girl who is outside of his wheelhouse. Wouldn’t it be great if you could be that woman who could attract ANY GUY (within reason of course)?

Here are 10 tips to get you on your way:

Be a flirtatious woman. Men love when a woman is a good flirt — not cheesy, not sleazy, just fun. Learn how to “smeyes” — smile with your eyes. The guys love that and will love you.

Be sexy. Men love women who are sexy and who KNOW they are sexy. The word sexy has no real definition these days — the key ingredient is that you FEEL sexy and then he senses it and thinks you are H-O-T, hot.

Be feminine. Keep in mind that if a man wanted to be with a man, he would be. So be girly, be feminine, be a woman. What does that mean? Smell good, cook him a meal once in a while, mother him when he needs it — find the cavewoman in you.

Be the woman all his friends are lusting after and who lights up the room with your smile. It’s a fact; if all of his friends are “ooohing and ahhing” over you, he will be attracted to you all the more.

Be confident. Men love ladies who have that “je ne sais quoi, that little intangible confidence that make them untouchable, yet so desirable all at once.

Be adaptable in any situation. Men want you to fit in at a fancy party, with beer and pizza on sports night and at a boring work function. And, he wants you to do it with ease and with no complaining. If you think that men fall in love with the “hard to get” women, think again. Not in today’s world. Today men really fall for easy-going gals who can go with the flow.

Be a woman who makes him feel great about himself and makes him feel needed. Men love the girls who play to their ego and make them feel like Superman. If a guy doesn’t understand how he is needed in your life, he won’t fall in love with you.

Be the woman who encourages a guy’s night out. A woman who, not only allow a guy’s night out, but also insists on it is a rockstar to any guy. The catch is that you have to really mean it. And if you do, he will be thinking about you the whole time he is out and won’t even notice the other girls around him.

Be a woman with interesting things going on. Men love a woman who has her own life with fun and different things happening. No man wants a girl who is always sitting at home waiting for him or a woman who needs him to provide 100 percent of the fun.

Be intelligent, but not a know-it-all. Men like women who have it together and who won’t embarrass them in a conversation; they like women who know something about a lot of different things. It doesn’t have to be politics and sports, it just has to be something you are passionate about and truly understand. And they hate know-it-alls; drop that quality immediately.

How to be a sweet fun girl

When a boy sends beautiful words to a young girl, they should be original and shouldn’t sound like a worn-out compliment that she has heard a hundred times.

Compliments shouldn’t only refer to the appearance but also to all of what makes her such as it is – character, personality, and sense of humour. Who wouldn’t love to get praise for their fashion style, talent or athletic success?

You can tell her that she is the best, the most beautiful, the prettiest woman you have ever met… But there is one sentence worth like all the compliments of the world together. All compliments that you send to the woman can help you to win it, but, according to a British study, the sentence “You don’t look like you have those years” is what every woman wants to hear.

Girls like it when their boyfriend says that they are fun because it means that they are having a good time with her. As soon as you tell her that she has a sense of humour, that will be bound to another compliment, and that is `You are smart because funny people are really intelligent.

You can always positively comment on her style and say that you like how she dresses or what music she listens to. Of course, if you want to conquer a girl totally then you will notice on her some details, such as sweet earrings on the ear or cool nail polish.

Everyone is interested in something, but when you find out which is her principal avocation, in this area, you have to commend her. If it is a sport, then commend her achievements in sport, and if she is good at work, then say that this what she does and the way it does fascinates you.

If she’s good at drawing, singing, dancing or acting do not hesitate to tell her that you, is in some way, admire her and appreciate what she does … Although maybe it works confidently and you think that’s an excessive compliment, it is not so, because trust me – everyone likes to hear the compliment which he deserved. Maybe her dance/voice/acting talent/drawings are praised by many people; she will prefer to hear that from you, especially if she really likes you.

This may not be a special talent or something on which she had to do, but why not to mention that colour of her voice drives you crazy? Of course, you will not tell her with these words, but feel free to let her know that her voice is one of your favorite sounds. Besides that, a lot can be found about personality on the basis of the voice, but also about the mood.

As this is something which boys rarely notice, this is a great compliment because girls really care about their hair, and boys usually only notice a drastic change, for example, if someone with long hair significantly cut her hair or if completely change her hair color. Compliment regarding the girl hairstyle will mean a lot to her because it will show how much attention you pay to her.

She saw a group of hooligans in the street who mistreat the powerless and decided to get involved and chase away them. Wow, she’s brave and righteous – let her know that you do not miss a thing. Maybe she is just affordable, maybe kind, she perhaps gives the best pieces of advice; in any case, do not be afraid to point out the qualities that you like the most about her.

A few ideas for compliments:

You’re so beautiful, but that is the least interesting thing about you.

I love to talk to you.

There is something about you which is why I blush every time I see you.

After a hard day, you come to me as a salve.

Every time I look at you, you make me smile.

I wouldn’t change anything about you.

It would be fun with you even in hell.

You’re the most imaginative face I know.

Your creativity inspires me.

Everything would be better if all people are like you.

The jokes are funnier when you tell them.

I love your honesty.

You’re perfect just the way you are!

How to be a sweet fun girl

When a boy sends beautiful words to a young girl, they should be original and shouldn’t sound like a worn-out compliment that she has heard a hundred times.

Compliments shouldn’t only refer to the appearance but also to all of what makes her such as it is – character, personality, and sense of humour. Who wouldn’t love to get praise for their fashion style, talent or athletic success?

You can tell her that she is the best, the most beautiful, the prettiest woman you have ever met… But there is one sentence worth like all the compliments of the world together. All compliments that you send to the woman can help you to win it, but, according to a British study, the sentence “You don’t look like you have those years” is what every woman wants to hear.

Girls like it when their boyfriend says that they are fun because it means that they are having a good time with her. As soon as you tell her that she has a sense of humour, that will be bound to another compliment, and that is `You are smart because funny people are really intelligent.

You can always positively comment on her style and say that you like how she dresses or what music she listens to. Of course, if you want to conquer a girl totally then you will notice on her some details, such as sweet earrings on the ear or cool nail polish.

Everyone is interested in something, but when you find out which is her principal avocation, in this area, you have to commend her. If it is a sport, then commend her achievements in sport, and if she is good at work, then say that this what she does and the way it does fascinates you.

If she’s good at drawing, singing, dancing or acting do not hesitate to tell her that you, is in some way, admire her and appreciate what she does … Although maybe it works confidently and you think that’s an excessive compliment, it is not so, because trust me – everyone likes to hear the compliment which he deserved. Maybe her dance/voice/acting talent/drawings are praised by many people; she will prefer to hear that from you, especially if she really likes you.

This may not be a special talent or something on which she had to do, but why not to mention that colour of her voice drives you crazy? Of course, you will not tell her with these words, but feel free to let her know that her voice is one of your favorite sounds. Besides that, a lot can be found about personality on the basis of the voice, but also about the mood.

As this is something which boys rarely notice, this is a great compliment because girls really care about their hair, and boys usually only notice a drastic change, for example, if someone with long hair significantly cut her hair or if completely change her hair color. Compliment regarding the girl hairstyle will mean a lot to her because it will show how much attention you pay to her.

She saw a group of hooligans in the street who mistreat the powerless and decided to get involved and chase away them. Wow, she’s brave and righteous – let her know that you do not miss a thing. Maybe she is just affordable, maybe kind, she perhaps gives the best pieces of advice; in any case, do not be afraid to point out the qualities that you like the most about her.

A few ideas for compliments:

You’re so beautiful, but that is the least interesting thing about you.

I love to talk to you.

There is something about you which is why I blush every time I see you.

After a hard day, you come to me as a salve.

Every time I look at you, you make me smile.

I wouldn’t change anything about you.

It would be fun with you even in hell.

You’re the most imaginative face I know.

Your creativity inspires me.

Everything would be better if all people are like you.

The jokes are funnier when you tell them.

I love your honesty.

You’re perfect just the way you are!

This list of Sweet 16 Birthday Party Ideas has fun, unique, budget-savvy ways to celebrate any girl’s milestone birthday.

How to be a sweet fun girl

“Sweet 16” Birthday Party Ideas
  1. Movie Under the Stars . Host friends for a movie on the lawn. Serve popcorn, movie theater candy, and ice cold cokes. Birthday invites can also serve as tickets to the show. Bring out your quilts, throw pillows or sports chairs to be used for seating. For a movie snack, serve some coconut sugared popcorn, or create a popcorn bar filled with a variety of sweet and savory toppings.
  2. Sip n’ Strokes. Serve up mock-tails or have a coffee bar available while your daughter’s guests receive an art lesson. They’ll leave with something unique to commemorate their night! Savvy tip: Hire a college student; art majors are probably not as expensive, and they may be eager for the experience. Also, keep an eye on your local craft store’s weekly ad for deals on canvases and other needed art supplies.
  3. High Tea. Have girls dress for the occasion and host a high-end tea party. Set a table with fresh flowers, fine china, and a unique teapot. Dainty tea fare is in order–provide finger sandwiches, scones, biscuits and jam. If you have a local tea room, make reservations and treat the girls to tea (without lifting a finger).
  4. Murder Mystery Dinner Party. Each guest receives the plot with his/her character in the invitation and arrives ready to solve the mystery! Clues are added throughout the evening, and by the end of three courses, hopefully no one else disappears…
  5. Unplug: Mindfulness Retreat/ Spa Day. Guests will place cell phones in a basket and have a time to fully recharge. Either make appointments to a spa or create your own “spa environment” with soft music, an outdoor or calm environment, and time spent getting pampered (hire someone for a day). Spa treats such as cucumber or fruit water, nuts, fruit, and perhaps a fabulous salad.
  6. Video Scavenger Hunt. Divide guests into pairs (or teams). Give each team a destination (store, park, etc…) and a silly task (singing, juggling, or doing a silly performance in front of strangers). The driver of each team will video the performance. At the end of the hunt, all videos will be viewed, and the best team wins a prize! Snacks, popcorn, and finger foods will keep everyone happy while watching hilarious videos.
  7. Girls Just Want to Have Fun. Have a Sweet 16 Slumber Party where girls party in their P.J.’s and settle in for a girl’s night. Play Jenga, Monopoly or Twister, bake and decorate cookies, sing and dance to karaoke, or watch chick flicks ‘til the sun comes up! Add some spa fun with DIY face masks and mani/pedis.
  8. Toga Party. Celebrate the birthday girl with a blast to the Grecian past. Cater Greek food, hire someone to teach traditional Greek dances, and have chairs nearby to lift the birthday girl up in the air! If you have the resources, you could create a Grecian backdrop by renting columns and decorating them with greenery. Top it off by showing the beloved movie, My Big Fat Greek Wedding.
  9. Breakfast at Tiffany’s. Girls “Chanel” their inner Audrey Hepburn by dressing in Tiffany blue and black; hire a photographer to capture the glamour of the day! End the day with a showing of Audrey Hepburn’s classic movie, and hand each guest her own strand of pearls!
  10. Barn Party. Giddy up, and celebrate the birthday girl Western style. Hire a D.J., play country music, and line dance the night away! Serve barbecue with traditional beans & coleslaw. This skillet blackberry cobbler would make the perfect yummy and rustic dessert. Use bandanas as napkins, place mats, and party favors. Use hay bales as benches for those who are all tuckered out. 🙂
  11. Island Escape. Send invites that guests can bring as “Tickets to Eden,” and let them step into your island paradise. Decorate the backyard with tiki torches, and dress your tables with grass skirts. Serve fruit skewers, roast a pig, and party the night away. Hand guests leis on arrival–and don’t forget the limbo stick!
  12. Color Powder Party. Tell your guests to wear something white to your color fight! Purchase or create your own color powder, and let your guests to have a color “fight” in a space that allows for a multicolored mess. Decorate with bright balloons, play a colorful game of kickball, and indulge in some rainbow sorbet, Skittles, and cotton candy. You might even want to set up a tie-dye station to keep with the color theme. This lively shindig will provide some great photo opportunities and will definitely be a party to remember!
  13. Glow-in-the-Dark. Hand out glow sticks to guests when they arrive so that they become a part of the decor. The bracelets also serve as fun party favors. Grab some black butcher paper and neon paint, and let your guests create a graffiti wall. Nothing beats a glow-in-the-dark dance party, so crank up the music and let them glow crazy. An added twist would be to take your party to an intense game of laser tag and then return to home base for food and fellowship!
  14. Disco Party. Have guests rock their big hair, bell bottoms and platform shoes so they can boogie on down to your “Soul Train.” Hang a disco globe light, play 70’s and 80’s dance tunes, and rock the night away! Give prizes for the best-dressed and best dancer, and pass out huge hair combs for guests to tuck into their back pockets.
  15. Barefoot Contessa. Take a group to a cooking class to learn how to make sushi, decorate a cake, or make homemade pizzas. You might even take some inspiration from the show “Cupcake Wars” for a little friendly competition in your own kitchen and allow your guests to create their own masterpieces.
  16. Great GatsbySoiree!” Host a 20’s party where your guests dress in their finest flapper dresses, longest strands of pearls, and their most feathery boas. Let your guests create their own 20’s inspired headpieces. Have a swing dance instructor teach some steps to be performed, or look up a Charleston tutorial on YouTube and practice a routine together. Follow this with a viewing of the latest production of The Great Gatsby.

Why Is A Girl’s Sweet 16 Birthday Important?

A girl’s 16th birthday means that she has come of age. While 16 is not considered a legal age, it is the time when girls learn how to take more adult responsibilities, such as driving and getting a job. Once a girl turns sixteen (16), she enters into womanhood and celebrates the end of her childhood.

Is 16 a milestone birthday?

A milestone birthday has been considered a time when a person gets to rethink about their past achievements and reminisce on their struggles as they embark into a new journey towards the future. 16th, 21st, 30th, 40th, 50th, 60th, and 75th are the most celebrated milestone birthdays.

Sweet 16 Birthday Gift Ideas
My Daughter’s Sweet 16 Parties

You can read about my youngest daughter’s party in this post.